If we're being bombarded by a stream of A gravity which is God's love propelling us away from the center of the Earth, but something about our nature causes us to sink down into it, then what happens inside us to determine our outcome?
We believe it's possible to redeemed and gay at the same time. Being redeemed happens when we put our faith in Jesus Christ and confess our guilt before God and acknowledge that we're a sinner.
When we believe in Jesus Christ we're quickened, and we have the power to overcome the real weight of real sin which is dragging us down to a real hell.
A major theme of the Bible, particularly the New Testament, is that we have two natures: carnal and spiritual. These two natures are at war within us. Light vs. darkness, good vs. evil, play out in our lives as carnal vs. spiritual.